Open Question: Should Husband continue relationship with his Father?
His mother is a drug addict/alcoholic and is as bad or if not worse than those people on that show intervention like shes probably gonna kill herself or die of the disease soon. and his father literally beats her and strangles her and he is an alcoholic himself but hes functioning at least. the father has found a new girlfriend and has moved out of the house and moved into his motorhome so he can live his new life. except that he goes to his/ his wives house every weekend and still loves her and he still has sex with the drug addict wife of his then goes off in the middle of the night and gets with his gf and then does this back and forth thing between his 2 women. at periods of time he says hes leaving the gf then gets back with the wife and moves back in but then it gets violent and goes back to his gf and he admits to being in love with the 2 women. the wife is absolutly heart broken and a complete mess but no one will say anything to this man because they think they should just respect him cuz hes their father. so me and my husband have been keeping our distance from them over the past year but of course we are always on like sucide duty with the mother or she shows up wasted and covered in bruises and all this bs. but the father is like a total 2 face and says all the right things to your face and acts all nice when you see him so its like hard to be or stay mad at me. well for my husband at least not for me. I think hes scum. so my husband went off and had lunch with his dad today and the dad showed him pictures of his girlfriend and was acting like nothing bad is going on in their lives and acts like nothing is going on. and my husband thinks hes being a good son by keeping a relationship with this man because thats what sons do. theres nothing i can say to my husband to make him think other wise what is your opinion what should I say? should i just let my husband keep making his dad feel good about himself? I feel like hes just adding fuel to the fire by making his dad think its cool what hes doing and that its his life and its not our problem we just want to all be friends and why cant everyone just get a long?
jessica- yeah unfortunatly i have tried to get him to go to alanon and ive talked to him about my feelings till im blue in the face and says its his issue not mine and I should stay out of it. its sad cuz my husband is bordering being an alcohol and following in his dads footsteps himself and it scares me. but its hard to imagine cuz hes such a great guy
Kira- thanks ill suggest it

Fri, 21 May 2010 01:10:06 GMT

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